Despite the fact that my parents and I intended to not buy tons of presents for Christmas this year, I wound up overspending on gifts, both for my parents and for myself. Right now, due to my current financial circumstances, I feel like the best way to get back on track is to go on a spending freeze, which I will be starting this week. I have attempted this challenge twice previously and I have found it to a great tool for boosting savings or debt repayment.
As I said in Part 1 of my Goals for 2018 series, I learned a lot about personal finance in 2017 — something that I had avoided dealing with for the majority of my adult life. I’ve always been terrible about money and I felt like I was so stuck in my irresponsible ways that I was beyond help. I began to realize, however, that in order to move forward with my life and give myself options for the future, I needed to make a significant change. There’s nothing that can make you feel more stuck than having a large amount of personal debt and no savings.
I did a lot of research — mostly through YouTube. I wanted to know how normal folks were managing to make smart financial decisions to pay down debt and save money and I needed to start with the basics. It turns out that there’s a substantial frugal living community on YouTube from which I was able to glean a lot of simple tips and basic best practices. It was in a YouTube video that I first heard about the concept of a spending freeze. The more I learned about this technique, the more I felt that it might be useful for my situation.
At the time, I had also been watching a lot of videos about minimalism and de-cluttering. These videos stressed using what you have instead of buying more things that you don’t need and might never use. The minimalists got me thinking about the things that I owned that I hadn’t yet used and I started to take a rough inventory. It turns out that I own loads of manga I haven’t read (though in most cases I have read the scans and just not the hard copy English releases), games I haven’t played, books I haven’t read, and I have a stash of arts and crafts materials that I haven’t yet used, such as yarn, needle felting kits, and colouring books. What, then, other than food, basic bills, toiletries, and a few aesthetic treatments I have regularly, did I need to spend any money on?
And so I decided, toward the end of February, that I would have two spending freezes in 2017: one in March and one in September. I chose those months in particular because they were my extra paycheque months for 2017, thus I could maximize the amount of money that I would pay toward my debt. I set the following rules for myself:
- I will purchase no video games, books, manga, crafting supplies, home decor, clothing, stationery or any other consumer goods.
- If I run out of any toiletries, such as facial cleanser or hand soap, I can re-purchase the same item or replace it with something in a similar price range.
- I have a small allowance set aside for eating out and I cannot exceed that amount (if my mother wants to buy dinner once in awhile, this does not count against my allowance).
- I may have one or two pre-planned video game purchases. I can purchase these when they are released; however, it may be better to wait until a price drop if I am not going to start playing them immediately.
My attempt in March was a disaster. I fell off the wagon almost immediately and consistently over-spent my takeout allowance. I was poorly prepared (both financially and mentally), but I did manage to reduce my spending significantly and pay a solid amount toward my debt. My September attempt was a huge success and I came very close to paying off my credit card balance ($8000 at the beginning of 2017) entirely, a feat I would proudly achieve in October.
Right now, my net income has been substantially reduced. I am earning about 35% less than usual; however, I have been spending like I am earning my full income (or even a little more than that). This is mostly emotional spending. Some of my purchases have been necessary as they are mechanisms that I believe will assist me in achieving my goals for the 2018, but many of my purchases have been “Hi, I have Cancer, so I will now treat myself” in nature. I don’t feel any guilt about making those purchases, because I am happy with them and I feel like we all need to be a little frivolous at times, but now it’s time to reign myself in.
Throughout the rest of January and all of February I will be following the rules that I have set for myself above. This will allow me, hopefully, to pay off my holiday spending quickly and set me on track for another financially responsible year in 2018! I’ll be posting some periodic updates on my progress, so please check them out!